What does it really mean to be a woman in business?

When I think about what it means to be a woman in business, I picture strength. I think of the boss lady who walks into a boardroom and owns the space. I see the independent woman who’s building her own empire, the trailblazer making space where there was once none, and the barrier-breaker redefining entire industries.

But the truth is, these are not always the first images that come to mind for many.

Despite the world making strides toward gender equality, the workplace remains a space where women continue to navigate complex, and sometimes subtle, challenges.

Women in the workplace still experience microaggressions (sometimes seemingly polite gestures, offhand remarks or dismissals) that can go unnoticed and unchecked. These comments that underhandedly assume a woman cannot occupy a certain leadership role, or be assertive and unemotional, for example, can sometimes seem superficial but have harmful effects.

Even “ladies first” gestures can create an atmosphere that welcomes the projected submissive view of women, masking deeper issues of exclusion or unconscious bias.

These everyday experiences, while small in isolation, can have a cumulative impact on women’s confidence, sense of belonging, and how they show up in their professional lives. For instance, a recent American study revealed that women amplify their own research 28% less often than men on social media platforms. In a world where visibility is power, this statistic is telling—not only of the way in which we as women continue to silence ourselves but also the ease with which we diminish our own value.

To me, this all signals a deeper issue: that women are more inclined to undervalue their own contributions, likely shaped by long-standing societal expectations of humility, nurturing and self-sacrifice.

If ever there was proof of this, it would be the American Economic Review which found that women are also more likely to take on behind-the-scenes responsibilities (like the organisation of team functions) which tend to go unrewarded in the workplace. These roles, though valuable, can inadvertently take a toll on women’s upward mobility and recognition.

The challenges don’t end there. But here’s the powerful truth: this doesn’t have to define us.

Women in business are not just contributors. They are leaders and powerful ones. The evidence suggests that companies founded or co-founded by women do better in terms of revenue creation, job growth and execution.

Women are strategic thinkers, gifted communicators, adaptive problem-solvers and resilient innovators. These aren’t just “soft skills”. They are the very qualities that make businesses thrive in today’s ever-changing world.

Redefining what it means to be a woman in business isn’t about abandoning traditional strengths, it’s about reclaiming them, owning them and ensuring they’re valued equally.

It’s about allowing ourselves to be ambitious and assertive, while also being collaborative and compassionate. It’s about challenging outdated norms and creating space for more nuanced, empowered representations of womanhood in professional spaces.

We are not just part of the system, we are reshaping it and the more we celebrate and elevate each other, the more we change the narrative for future generations of women in business.

The business case for working mothers: Debunking the mother of all myths

Somehow, along the way, society adopted a troubling stereotype: that when women become mothers, they become less valuable in the workplace and are, in turn, more of a liability than an asset. However, research tells a different story.

Instead of hindering professional performance, motherhood often enhances it. In fact, a foreign study by the Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis found that working mothers often bring unique strengths and perspectives that companies would do well to celebrate, not sideline.

South African women have participated in the formal workforce for over a century, and only within the last three decades have they received meaningful legal protection from workplace discrimination related to childbearing. Thanks to the country’s progressive constitution, the Labour Relations Act of 1995, and the Basic Conditions of Employment Act of 1997, women are now safeguarded from being dismissed or treated unfairly because they choose to have children. These laws have significantly shifted how employers treat and think about working mothers.

In recent years, we’ve even seen the rise of “pumping rooms” in office spaces: designated private areas where breastfeeding employees can express milk comfortably. These small but powerful changes reflect a growing understanding that supporting mothers at work isn’t just the right thing to do, it’s a smart investment.

Yet, despite all this progress, the gender gap in South Africa remains stubborn and so do the stereotypes. The idea that working mothers can’t be fully committed to their jobs continues to shape hiring, promotion, and workplace culture in subtle and not-so-subtle ways.

Working motherhood: A double-edged sword

What working mothers really bring to the table

Celebrating working mothers beyond mother’s day

Unpacking gender bias: From awareness to action

From awareness to accountability

  • Revamp recruitment and promotion processes: Use blind resume reviews and diverse hiring panels.
  • Measure equity: Track representation, retention, and promotion data across demographics.
  • Invest in leadership development for underrepresented groups: Give women and minorities access to the tools and mentorship needed to grow.
  • Create safe reporting systems: Foster psychological safety by making it easy and non-punitive to report discrimination or exclusion.

Recognising bias is important, but the real challenge and opportunity lies in what comes next: taking action. Bias may be human, but what we do with that knowledge is a conscious choice.

Let’s commit to doing more than noticing bias. Let’s name it, challenge it, and change the systems that allow it to thrive because equity doesn’t happen by accident, it happens by action.

Tlholohello Lolo Motsamai, Founder and Executive Director at SHE in Energy Africa

Bio 

I have a decade plus experience as a business development and marketing executive with a demonstrated history of working in the financial sector (banking), construction material supply, the built environment industry (Architecture & Townplanning) and the energy sector.

Academically, I have an IT qualification which I have never used in my career and have rendered the qualification obsolete as mine has always been a flair towards sales and marketing. I have completed the Management Development Programme through the UFS Business School, various online training programmes through the RENAC Renewables Academy and currently a trainee with the institution for the Energy Transformation Expert Programme (EnerTracks). I am also the representative for the RENAC Green People’s Energy for Africa Alumni Network (ANSAP) and my ultimate academic goal is to pursue an MBA in Renewable Energy through the Alma Mater the RENAC Renewables Academy.

I am passionate about gender advocacy and out of passion, excitement and frustration, founded SHE in Energy Africa (NPC) which seeks to narrow gender disparities in the energy sector through skills development and training and to accelerate women’s role not only as professionals but as entrepreneurs in the energy sector. The highlights in my gender advocacy journey, was serving as the country chairperson of African Women in Energy and Power and for being one of the first cohort to participate in the WE Connect Mentorship supported by SAPVIA and SAWEA.

My favourite qoute and also my credo is by Oprah Winfrey; the best deterrent to racism and sexism is through excellence.


Questions

How did you end up in the energy sector and what advice would you give to other women wanting to follow a similar career trajectory?

I matriculated back in 1999. “IT” (Information Technology) was the buzzword, and inevitably, in 2000, I enrolled in an IT Diploma, a qualification I have rendered obsolete as I have never used it in my entire career. Interestingly, it was while I was working at the institution on a part-time basis as a student advisor that I discovered my love for sales and marketing. Fast forward to 2003, I landed a job in the financial sector at ABSA bank as a retail sales consultant. After 3 years with the financial institution, I decided to leave my hometown, Bloemfontein, and relocated to Johannesburg, looking for greener pastures.

Completely by chance, I was introduced to the energy sector/solar industry where I worked as a sales representative, marketing, and selling solar water heating systems at the company Solar Heat Exchangers. While at the time, I didn’t envision staying long in the industry and ultimately building a career as an entrepreneur, gradually I fell in love with the idea that water could also be heated using the sun/solar energy generated through panels. At the same time, preserving the environment due to renewable energy technologies being less carbon-intensive. As the saying goes, the rest is history.

In your opinion, why do you think the energy sector in its current state has less female representation and do you see it increasing?

I think the perception that one has to come from a technical/engineering background, and rightfully so, I suppose, as the sector is highly technical, is also a contributor to the lesser female representation in the sector and industry. And again, this is where the importance of introducing, educating, and exposing such sectors, industries, and career opportunities, particularly to the HDI, is very important. On a positive note, I strongly believe we are going to see more participation by women, whether as professionals or entrepreneurs, in the sector and industry, thanks to policies supporting gender equity and mainstreaming in both the sector and industry.

If you could have tea with any public figure – dead or alive – who would it be and why?

So, I have a great love for music, something I got from my folks, with quite an eclectic taste. Nina Simone and Miriam Makeba are the two women I would want to meet with, I think we could start off with coffee and later wine, because there would be so much to talk about, not just musically but politically. I love how they both used their gift as musicians for a bigger purpose, which was political activism. It’s something I myself used to be very passionate about but have toned down as I grow older.

What does being a woman in the energy sector mean to you?

Being a woman in the energy sector, for me, means working twice as hard as my male counterpart. I feel that one constantly must prove oneself, not only just to be seen but also to be heard. This is very important to have a voice in the sector and industry, not just on issues of gender but also on sector developments and challenges.

What opportunities do you see in Africa’s energy market?

The African continent, which is endowed not only with minerals but also with energy sources, whether it’s solar, wind, or gas reserves, presents a plethora of opportunities that could boost the continent’s economy beyond what we could imagine possible as Africans and as a unified unit. This is achievable only if the continent is well governed.